In Africa Serengeti plains there is an animal called
Wildebeest. The wildebeests, also called gnus, are a genus of antelope. They
belong to the family Bovidae, which includes antelopes, cattle, goats, sheep
and other even-toed horned ungulates. Out of all the ungulates, wildebeests are
unique. They never run for very long. That’s
not because they’ve just realized something important and want to stop and
think about it. And it’s not because they’re tired. It’s because they’re so
dumb that they forget why they started running in the first place.
They see a
predator, they realize they’re supposed to run away, and they start moving in
the opposite direction. But they lose sight of what inspired them to run,
sometimes at the most inopportune moments. Sometimes they stop right next to predator;
sometimes they’ll walk right up to one, as though they weren’t really sure
whether this is the same animal that frightened them a few minutes ago. They
almost seem to be saying, “Hey, Mr. Lion, are you hungry? Care for some lunch?”
If there weren’t a whole lot of wildebeest, I think the whole species would get
gobbled up in a matter of weeks.
Does
this remind you of some of us, who behave like wildebeests? They get a great
idea, they commit themselves to a goal, and they run with that goal for a day
or may be for only a half a day. Maybe they just walk around, cautiously, for
15 minutes or so. After those 15 minutes of ambling around, they realize they haven’t
got to where they said they wanted to get to. Then they say to them, “Oh, this
is going to be tough; it isn’t as easy as I thought it was going to be”. And
they stop dead in their tracks.
These
people are the patients of wildebeest syndrome; they are the victims of
wildebeest thinking. Often their problem isn’t that they’re doing the wrong
things to move closer to their goals – they’re not doing anything to move closer
to their goals.
Think
about instances in your life, do you have any symptoms of wildebeest syndrome? If
you do then it’s a bad news, but you are not alone, there are many of us, who
have the wildebeest thinking pattern. The good news is you are not wildebeest.
So, you can overcome this syndrome, you can actually avoid wildebeest thinking.
Just follow the prescription, it might be of help.
You
have to set a goal and then stick to it. You don’t want to stop in your tracks
and you certainly don’t want to stop when your predators are close by. You have
to take stock at the end of each and every day and ask yourself, “How
much closer am I to the major goals I set for myself?” And if the honest answer
to that question is that you haven’t made any meaningful movement toward the
goals you’ve identified – if you’ve stopped in your tracks – then you have to
resolve to do something different the next time you find yourself on the plains
of Serengeti, if you wish to avoid being lunch to lions.
Thinking
about wildebeest thinking – wildebeests never, ever have a clear sense of the
overall direction of their day. They don’t know whether or not they’re moving
closer to or further away from a goal, and they certainly don’t seem to be very
good at embracing goals that inspire them (or anyone else). Wildebeest don’t build
tomorrows. They live in a “permanent yesterday,” a world ruled by unproductive
habit, inertia, and routine. The routine may be comforting, but it can also be
lethal – but it’s unfortunate that many of us realize it when it is already too
late.
These
routines only seem comfortable and safe to us. They’re not really comfortable –
they just seem less scary, for the moment, than the last thing we remembered to
challenge ourselves with. If we thought things through, we’d realize that it
was the deadening routines we allow into our lives that are truly scary.
Most
of us encounter wildebeest thinking form time to time in our own lives. (I know
I do.) The trick is not to let that kind of thinking take over the day. At the
close of the day, you have to be able to ask yourself “Was I pursuing positive
goals, goals based on my image of the best person I’m capable of being, or was
I drifting downward toward negative influences that are likely to stop my
progress toward positive goals?”
If,
as you look back over your day’s journey, you realize that you made a habit of
stopping because you forgot why you started running in the first place, beware!
A wildebeest may be taking over your day.
Recognizing
that you’re indulging in wildebeest thinking means you’ve got a big part of the
job done. Once you recognize that you’ve stalled out, you can start moving away
from that lion. The aim is to be able to say, at the end of the day, “You know what?
I tried some new things today, getting to my goal is harder than I thought it
would be, and it might take me longer to get where I’m going than I thought it
would, but I tried something. And I’m going to try something else tomorrow.” That’s
the way to get the jump on the predators.
Don’t
make the mistake of assuming that the predator is necessarily a competitor or a
rival. It could be you. For instance if you stop moving toward constructive
goals long enough to start thinking about pros and cons, your own ethical
principles, and other details, (which have already been worked out, that’s how
you could chose the goal), you’re in trouble. That’s the wildebeest standing
right next to a lion, saying, “care for some appetizers?” It’s time to start thinking about new
strategies, new methods, new options that will allow you to maintain your own
ethical standards and shoot for the goals that get you excited.
So,
the final checklist to avoid “Wildebeest Syndrome” – Set a Goal, work on it on
a daily basis, review your progress, asses if progress is not as desired or
expected, and evaluate the course and the vehicle for your journey, attempt course
correction or change vehicle, change pace, if that’s what your evaluation say, reassure
yourself, collect yourself for a brisker walk next day, and move. The keyword
to get out of “Wildebeest syndrome” is "keep moving". चरैवेति चरैवेति !!
Get well soon!!


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